This
has to be yet the hardest web page I've ever had to build. So
I'm just going to try and tell people how I knew my dad and post
a few pictures of him. This page is still under construction so
please bear with me. My dad (James Julien Jones) was born on
March 25th 1951. From what people have told me my dad was born
on Easter that year. I know that my dad grew up in Toledo and
was a great wrestler in High School. He went to Ohio State on a
Scholarship for Wrestling. My Dad met my Mom and have been
married since. My parents had 3 children: Me (Jeremy), Chris and
then Josh. Dad owned his own Painting business that my
brother Chris now runs.
What was my dad like with us while growing up. My dad loved
to fish, I honestly don't think I know anyone who liked to be
fishing more than my dad. Instead of having hobbies like cars,
motorcycles ect. his hobby was the boat and fishing. I can
remember fishing with my Dad and Grandpa Scott when I was
younger. Eventually my dad had purchased his own boat and of
course during the summer I think my Dad was either working,
fishing, or working on the boat. Sometimes it was hard to go out
on the boat with my Dad due to the way he thought that things
should be run, but I think that after time we started to see eye
to eye a little better and tended to get along better. I think
the fact that I was a Mechanic for 6 or so years and was now
deemed my Dad's personal boat mechanic helped a lot
too. Then hardest thing for me after my Dad died was seeing the boat get sold. But boats unfortunately cost money to
maintain and it would have been hard to justify keeping a boat
and spending the money for the upkeep and dock and not really
having enough time to enjoy it. Some day I'll buy another boat
and get back to fishing.
Dad was and still is the biggest Ohio State fan that I have ever
known. Growing up we got to listen to my Dad get excited about
the football games. If Ohio State was losing at the time I think
all of the neighbors knew that my Dad was getting excited about
the game as well. He was very passionate about the Buckeyes and
I think that made all of us passionate Buckeye fans as well.
Every time I watch a Buckeyes game I will definitely hear my
father yelling down to the team. I was glad that my Dad got to
see his team finally win the National Championship. I think that
was one of my Dad's happiest times seeing the Bucks win the
Championship. Go Bucks!
My Dad loved to go up to the UP of Michigan for our
family summer vacation. We would rent a cabin along with other
family members and all have a good time fishing, site seeing,
relaxing, swimming, skiing, bonfires and star gazing. We always
had a good time and had stories to tell after we spent a week or
two up there. I think we went up there 15 or 18 years in a row
before we went some where else. I remember my dad saying to me I
hope some day you bring your kids up here. Hopefully some day I
will get to bring them up there and hopefully they enjoy it like
I did when I was a kid, but I think we will be camping at the
campgrounds instead of staying at the old cabins up there.
Site seeing was another of my Dad's things that he seemed to
enjoy. I think anywhere we went we always drove around and saw
the sights. Which probably why I like to do the same thing.
My Dad was definitely a family person. I didn't really realize
how much until I moved out. He liked to have everyone get
together, not just for holidays but all the time. The last
memory of my dad was we had gone camping to East Harbor State
Park and my Parents stayed the night and Haley was just a baby
and was crying all night long but my dad was still happy to
spend time with us and Haley. My dad and I took a ride down to
the lake and talked about life a little bit, I remember my dad
telling me how fast time goes by, about Haley and of course
about fishing and what he was going to do to the boat this year
and when he was going to be able to get out and go fishing. I
didn't get to see my dad alive again after this day he passed
away the next Tuesday.
I think about how much today I'm kind of like my Dad. We both
have a weird sense of humor, we both love space and star gazing,
sometimes I laugh when I here myself saying some of the things
my Dad said to me when I was a kid and I'm now saying them to my
Daughter.
One of the greatest joys I have ever seen my dad have was
watching him with my daughter. I don't ever recall seeing my dad
so happy when we had Haley and he was holding her with this big
smile. I wish he could be here to watch Haley grow up and I wish
Haley could have spent more time with him.
Time sure does fly by. I've been trying to get this finished
so I can post this page but I have a hard time writing about my
Dad lately. I get a little down in the dumps so to speak. It's
been over a year since my Dad passed away and it still hurts to
think about things.
Anyways here are a few photos that I have of my Dad and I
hope that you enjoy them.
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